Q:What is the meaning behind the tradition of bringing bread and salt to
someone when s/he moves into a new home.
A: Bread is regarded as the most basic foodstuff. In the Talmud, a meal
(requiring a blessing to be recited) is defined by the consumption of a piece of
bread larger than an olive. There are several traditions that place bread and
salt together:
1) It is an imitation of
Temple ritual, where offerings were prepared with salt. 2) It refers to
Genesis 3:19, which says "By the sweat of your brow, shall you get bread to
eat"; salt is representative of the sweat. 3) Bread and salt are regarded as
a natural pair because the Hebrew words *lechem* (bread) and *malach* (salt) are
both spelled from the same three letters.
By bringing bread and salt
to a new home, one is making it possible for the people who have just moved to
sustain themselves.
Written by Amy W. Helfman,
Judaica Librarian, HUC-JIR, New York
Q:We had the interior of our house painted
and want to put back the mezuzahs. Exactly how should they be put on the door
posts and what are the prayers?
A: The Biblical commandment "And you shall write them upon the doorposts of
your house and upon your gates" from Deuteronomy 6:9 is the source for the
practice of affixing a Mezzuzah to the doorposts of your
house.
Traditional Jewish practice
about Mezzuzot is that a Mezzuzah should be affixed to every door in a house
except for the bathroom, even if there are many rooms in a house and even if the
room has more than one door. As long as a door can be used as an entrance and
exit, a Mezzuzah should be affixed to the doorpost.
It should be affixed to the
doorpost on the right hand side of a person entering the room. It should go
about 2/3 of the way up the doorpost and be affixed diagonally, with the top of
the Mezzuzah slanting in towards the house or the entrance of the room. If the
doorpost is not wide enough, the Mezzuzah should be affixed
vertically.
Before affixing the
Mezzuzah, the following benediction is recited: Baruch Atah Adonai, Eloheinu
melech ha-olam, asher kid'shanu b'mitzvotav v'tzivanu lik-bo-a m'zu-zah.
Blessed are You, Adonai, our God, Sovereign of the universe, who hallows us
with Mitzvot and commands us to affix the Mezzuzah.
A service for affixing the
Mezzuzah is found in the CCAR publication: On the Doorposts of Your House, page
141.
In the Reform tradition, we
may interpret the requirements for Mezzuzah as it has individual meaning for
each of us. Therefore, you may affix the Mezzuzah only to the exterior doors and
principal rooms of the house, if you so desire.
Written by Cantor Michael A.
Shochet, Temple Rodef Shalom, Falls Church, Virginia
Q: Is it permissible for
someone who is below average height to affix a mezzuzah lower than the norm, in
order that they may be able to touch it and "interact" with it as they enter and
exit their home, so that it may not be merely a "decorative"
element?
A: First, regarding the height at which a mezzuzah should properly be
affixed, the halacha is clear on this matter, and all authorities are in
agreement. The mezzuzah should be affixed in the upper third of the doorpost,
but not less than one handsbreath from the lintel. (See, for example,
Ganzfreid's Code of Jewish Law). An average exterior door is typically
between six feet six inches (78 inches) and seven feet (84 inches) in height.
Thus a mezzuzah may be hung 52 - 56 inches high (4'4" - 4'8", depending on the
height of the door). A typical person's reach is at least twenty percent above
her height. Thus, if the door is seven feet tall, the mezzuzah may be hung at a
height of four feet eight inches, and should be easily accessible to a person
under four feet tall. So, unless someone has a truly unusual door, or they are
exceptionally short in stature, they should have no trouble at all complying
with the letter of the halacha.
Second, regarding the usage
of the Mezzuzah. Maimonides (Code, Book 2, Laws of Mezzuzah, Chapter 6:13)
exhorts readers to be scrupulous in observing the mitzvah of having a mezzuzah
since "whenever one enters or leaves a home with a mezzuzah on the doorpost, he
will see it and be confronted with the declaration of God's unity.....This
thought will immeditely restore him to his right senses and he will walk in the
paths of righteousness." According to Maimonides, the essence of the mitzvah of
mezzuzah is to SEE it -- it is not necessary to TOUCH it. Further, Maimonides
explicitly warns against those who misuse the mezzuzah, presuming it to be an
amulet (loc. cit. 5:4). In other words, even if it were not possible for someone
to hang their mezzuzah within REACH, they can fulfill both the letter and the
spirit of the halacha by hanging it within SIGHT.
Third, regarding the
touching of the Mezzuzah. The custom appears to have originated with the MaHaRil
(Rabbi Jacob ben Moses Boellin, 1360-1427), who based it on a story in the
Talmud (Avodah Zarah 11a) in which Onkelos b. Kalonymous the Proselyte touched
his mezzuzuah in order to be afforded protection against Roman soldiers who were
arresting him. So there is some rabbinic precedent to the custom.
The desire to observe this
custom, and thereby to mark the separation between the private, sanctified space
within and the public, ordinary space outside, appears to be a good example of a
positive application of the Reform Jewish principle of seeking renewed meaning
to traditional customs and observances. On this ground, I might be inclined to
support it, even in the unlikely circumstance that the door is so high, or the
people so short, that they cannot possibly reach the mezzuzah within the rather
broad halachic guidelines above. However, even in that instance, one must
consider the principle of Marit Ayin (appearance to others) -- and be concerned
that acquaintances, possessed of less intense Jewish identity and literacy,
might see the lower-than-usual mezzuzah and conclude that that is the normal,
appropriate height at which to hang it. This might then mislead their own
practice, even if there were no need to do so.
In conclusion -- depending
on the height of the door, it seems likely that the mezzuzah can be hung at a
height which fulfills the halacha and can still be within reach. If not, the
mitzvah of mezzuzah can still be fulfilled if it is within sight, even if not
within reach. I would counsel against hanging it lower, since:
[a] to do so is not
halachically permissible; [b] to do so is not necessary, either to fulfill
the letter or the spirit of the halacha, even if your friends are exceedingly
short; [c] the custom of touching the mezzuzah is of relatively late origin,
is a custom (not a law) and might be construed to lean towards making the
mezzuzah an amulet; and [d] hanging the mezzuzah too low might give an
erroneous impression to others, who have not researched the question
carefully.
Written by Rabbi Ramie
Arian, Vice President of the Wexner Heritage Foundation, a privately funded
Jewish educational foundation.