The URJ brochure “Becoming a Jew” will answer many of your questions. Reading is another good way to begin learning about Judaism. We offer a page of suggested reading materials on conversion, and most books are available from internet booksellers.

It’s good to understand the vocabulary that is used in synagogues. This vocabulary list will be helpful in explaining the meaning of unfamiliar words. Don’t worry, you won’t need to know them immediately! This list will be a useful reference as you hear new words. You may also want to refer to Breaking the Code: A Glossary of Hebrew and Yiddish Terms.

An important part of the conversion process is working with a sponsoring rabbi. He or she will guide your process. Many Reform rabbis will require Introduction to Judaism, will want to meet with you on a regular basis and work with you for a period of time as you learn the rhythms of the Jewish year. There is no finite period for conversion. To find a sponsoring rabbi, check the congregations in your area.

The best way to decide if a Jewish life is right for you is to begin to live a Jewish life and the best way to live a Jewish life is to become connected to a congregation. The URJ has congregations of all sizes. Depending on what is available in your area, we suggest that you try two or three URJ congregations before you make a final choice. You can find a congregation here. Locate your state and you will get a listing of URJ congregations with corresponding links to their websites.

Shabbat Services, which occur on Friday evening and Saturday morning, are open to anyone who wants to attend. Most URJ congregations have websites that will tell you what time Shabbat services begin. Many URJ congregations have greeters or ushers who will help you find a seat. Each congregation’s services may begin at different times. To find out when services begin, call the congregation and ask what time Shabbat Services are for that week. Read “An Introduction to Sanctuary Etiquette” to answer some basic questions about what happens at a Shabbat Service.

It may be easiest if you begin by telling the person who answers the phone that you are calling for the first time and that you are interested in learning more about Judaism. This will help them understand that your call is important.

Sometimes congregational rabbis are not able to return phone calls as quickly as they and we would prefer. We recommend that you attend a Shabbat Service and introduce yourself to the Rabbi at the oneg. The Rabbi will not be able to make an appointment on Shabbat, but your participation at Shabbat Service will tell the rabbi your level of seriousness about learning about Judaism.

The URJ has two specialists that work with small congregations: Merry Lugasy, MLugasy@urj.org and Rabbi Marcus Bernstein MBurstein@urj.org. They are familiar with the small URJ congregations throughout North America. They may be able to help you find a congregation near you and will be happy to reply to your email.

Yes, many people are part of a Jewish family for a number of years before deciding to explore conversion. If you are currently a member of a URJ congregation, we recommend your speak with your congregational rabbi.

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