How to Address Aging, Illness, and Mental Health in Our Congregations

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How to Address Aging, Illness, and Mental Health in Our Congregations

A growing aspect of my work with Jewish Sacred Aging – a forum for discussions on aging for Baby Boomers and their families – has been to work with congregations to develop responses on issues related to mental health. This issue, which spans across ages and impacts one in five American families, is of increasing concern to the growing population of aging Jewish adults.

An estimated 25% of the American Jewish community is now over the age of 65, and every living Baby Boomer is now at least 50 years old. The “longevity revolution,” as I call it, is now part of every congregation's challenge.

Jewish tradition has much to say about the issue of mental health. The account of David soothing a distressed King Saul by playing the harp is thought of, by some, as the first recorded instance of music therapy. Talmud Chagiga 3b discusses an actual diagnosis, based on observation of behaviors, of a shoteh, someone thought to be dealing with mental illness; later, Maimonides extended the definition to include individuals who have lost the capacity for rational thought and always seem to be confused in one particular area, though they may seem otherwise rational. Specific phrases from Jewish tradition even described conditions such as marah sh'chorah, a dark bile or bitterness – depression.

Concerns about dealing with older adults often focus on issues related to isolation and loneliness. When elders fall ill or lose their spouses, they can become removed from their social networks and find their lives suddenly devoid of meaningful social contact, which can lead to depression and thoughts of suicide. In addition to these mental health concerns, our congregations and clergy are increasingly confronted with questions of how to support, care for, and embrace individuals and families struggling with ailments such as dementia and Alzheimer’s.

Looking for a place to start? A growing cache of resources is available to support congregations in clergy in their efforts to address such challenges in their communities:

For more information on this topic, visit the Disabilities Inclusion Learning Center and watch Rabbi Address's webinar, "Judaism, Older Adults, Mental Health and Your Congregation."

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Rabbi Richard F. Address, D.Min., is the founder and director of Jewish Sacred Aging® LLC, and its website, He hosts a weekly podcast “Seekers of Meaning," which focuses on issues related to baby boomers and their families. He previously served on the staff of the Union for Reform Judaism for more than three decades, first as a regional director and more recently as founding director of Jewish Family Concerns. He also served congregations in California and New Jersey.

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