Our Jewish tradition places a very high value on creating and nurturing community. In this time of imposed social isolation this is so challenging to do – but for two populations, it is even more important than ever before. Even in more “normal times,” isolation of the elderly is endemic, and today, when they are at such great health risk, it has become so much worse. The other population at great risk for mental health issues stemming from loneliness and disconnection are our teens.
While there is, alas, no such thing as a silver bullet in our world, there actually is good news for synagogues, Jewish schools, and youth groups who want to help address this communal crisis and create community and nurture relationships.
Better Together in a box is a ready-made program you can bring to your Jewish community to empower teens to reach out to the elderly, befriend them, and make their day a little brighter – which in turn, brightens the teens’ lives immeasurably.
The Better Together in a box program consists of a series of lesson plans for teens and an intergenerational activity guide, with suggestions for both the tech-savvy and the elderly in your community. You recruit the teens and seniors, while the program brings the guidelines, the content, and the funding to implement it in your community; there is also a writing contest for the teens. Since Better Together started in 2014, so many teens and seniors across America have participated. As a result of the pandemic, however, something bigger has happened: The program has become a movement, and thousands of teens and seniors are benefiting this year alone, from the new, safe, remote version, Better Together in a box.
Let’s honor our elders by engaging in hiddur p’nai zaken, and support our teens by bringing them together in community to learn, celebrate, and be fully human together. As Rabbi Rick Jacobs tells us in this video, it’s also just as big a for seniors to engage in this project to mentor and help the teens as it is for the teens to engage in this mitzvah to honor the elderly.
This opportunity can be a ray of light in a dark year by helping teens and seniors understand that they really are Better Together.
For more information about the program, visit our website, at bettertogetherinabox.com and email us at firstname.lastname@example.org to get an application to run the program in your community this spring. Applications are being accepted until February 8, 2021.